Do's And Don'ts How To Keep Him Interested

How to keep him interested is tough especially as time goes on. Getting a guy's attention is an easy thing to do, it usually starts with a little flirtation which cannot hurt both of you. Girls are usually easy to read compared to guys who are not and this makes it hard to know what he is thinking about. Here are some tips that should help you keep him interested:

> Find out what he likes and show genuine interest on those - his hobbies and pastime, favourite dishes, sports, etc.

> Be yourself - never try to pretend whom you're not because he will eventually find out.

> Be his friend - successful relationships always start with friendship.

> NO to jealousy - guys hate jealous women and they would soon lose interest in you if you are like that. He is with you so that should put all your doubts to rest.

> NEVER be excessively needy - give him space don't check up on him continuously.

> Be independent stand on your ground, men don't like women who always depend on them and don't have minds of their own.

> Make him miss you - don't always be available for him, have time for yourself also. Give him enough time so that he can think about you and would be looking forward to seeing you again.

> Don't make him the centre of your universe - you both have different lives so live your life as well; never focus your whole life in him because you have lived before he even came to your life.

> Surprise him every now and then - think of something out of your daily routine so that he will never know what to expect when he is with you, this will make him feel special as well.

> Appreciate him - women are not the only ones who like to be appreciated, tell him you appreciate his efforts or whatever he has done be it big or small.

> Be trustworthy - never lie even if it is one small white lie, because we all hate being lied to, you will earn respect by being honest.

> Look great, feel great - you don’t have to put on full make up; just enhance your natural beauty, clean clothes, fresh smelling.

> Keep him intrigued - don't divulge all information about yourself to him keep him guessing in some aspects of your life, you can let him work it out through conversations but make him work for it.

> Don't nag – this is a real turn off, if you have a concern try to talk about in a constructive way, be helpful, considerate.

> Accept him for who he is and don't try to change him - you cannot change a man's true nature, so you should accept him wholeheartedly not only those things you love about him but also the things you don't as well.

> Love yourself - if you do, so shall he.

> Never open up about MARRIAGE - as soon as that word is out of your mouth, so is he; it's like a bomb being dropped on them. They don't like to rush things. If he feels you are the one, don't worry because no matter how short you've been with him, he will open it up

Hopefully, with all of these, you won't have trouble keeping your man's interest in you and who knows maybe next time he will pop the question you've been waiting for.