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Saturday, 4 August 2012
Husband and wife meet at the same lodge
A married couple busted each
other when they bumped into
each other at the same lodging in
Mlolongo town on the Nairobi-
Mombasa highway.
The little town, which is just a
collection of shops and pubs
spread on both sides of the
highway, is popular with amorous
track drivers and married men
and women with secrets to hide.
According to Salma, an eyewitness
in Mlolongo, husband and wife
separately hooked up with their
respective clandestine lovers a
fortnight ago.
“They both checked into the same
guest house and proceeded to
their respective rooms with their
clandestine lovers in tow. But
hours later, hell broke loose,”
Salma offers.
Apparently that evening, the
guesthouse experienced power
outages and as the woman came
out of the shower, the lights went
out. Wrapped in a towel, she
walked to the main reception to
enquire what was a miss.
But in a twist of fate, “Her
husband also came out in a pair
of shorts and an unbuttoned shirt
and headed straight to the
reception to for the same reason,”
says Salma.
Scream
Forgetting that each was guilty,
they both demanded to know
what the other was doing at the
lodge before throwing caution to
the wind and wrestling each other
to the ground.
“I just saw the woman scream
and grab her husband who
slapped her hard out of fury,”
Salma reports.
“The lovers who were still in the
room were attracted by the loud
confrontation only to find man
and wife tearing into each other.
They both quickly slipped through
the door and disappeared in the
darkness as the couple beat the
hell out of each other,” Salma
says.
”You lied to me that you would be
at the project site this evening
supervising the construction of
our house,” the woman shouted
at her husband who was also
trying to get answers from her.
Apparently, the woman has been
secretly entertaining her young
lover, not knowing that the
husband also frequented the
same lodging with a clandestine
lover.
The couples were thrown out of
the lodging by the management
as curious onlookers enjoyed the
free evening drama.
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other when they bumped into
each other at the same lodging in
Mlolongo town on the Nairobi-
Mombasa highway.
The little town, which is just a
collection of shops and pubs
spread on both sides of the
highway, is popular with amorous
track drivers and married men
and women with secrets to hide.
According to Salma, an eyewitness
in Mlolongo, husband and wife
separately hooked up with their
respective clandestine lovers a
fortnight ago.
“They both checked into the same
guest house and proceeded to
their respective rooms with their
clandestine lovers in tow. But
hours later, hell broke loose,”
Salma offers.
Apparently that evening, the
guesthouse experienced power
outages and as the woman came
out of the shower, the lights went
out. Wrapped in a towel, she
walked to the main reception to
enquire what was a miss.
But in a twist of fate, “Her
husband also came out in a pair
of shorts and an unbuttoned shirt
and headed straight to the
reception to for the same reason,”
says Salma.
Scream
Forgetting that each was guilty,
they both demanded to know
what the other was doing at the
lodge before throwing caution to
the wind and wrestling each other
to the ground.
“I just saw the woman scream
and grab her husband who
slapped her hard out of fury,”
Salma reports.
“The lovers who were still in the
room were attracted by the loud
confrontation only to find man
and wife tearing into each other.
They both quickly slipped through
the door and disappeared in the
darkness as the couple beat the
hell out of each other,” Salma
says.
”You lied to me that you would be
at the project site this evening
supervising the construction of
our house,” the woman shouted
at her husband who was also
trying to get answers from her.
Apparently, the woman has been
secretly entertaining her young
lover, not knowing that the
husband also frequented the
same lodging with a clandestine
lover.
The couples were thrown out of
the lodging by the management
as curious onlookers enjoyed the
free evening drama.
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MOST READ TODAY
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People’s Project’
Kenya's Kipyego bags
Olympics Silver medal
Raila ups tempo in search of
votes
Prophetess on the General
Election and tragedies
Njonjo, six others banned as
officials of listed companies
One killed in Nairobi
explosion
Central Kenya aspirants say
not politically indebted
PM crowned elder in
Nyandarua
Hillary Clinton in Kenya
PM: New parties formed to
block my State House race
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Nude tourism to earn USA $440million.
When the Carnival Freedom sets sail from
Florida next February for an eight-day cruise to
Panama, it will offer the same amenities as any
other Carnival cruise: three pools, a jogging
track, a 1970s dance club and a cigar bar.
But there is one stark difference. Passengers on
the white behemoth of a ship, which can carry
2,974 passengers, will enjoy those facilities
naked.
The ship’s expected nude sailing — the trip is
70 per cent booked — underscores the vitality
of the US nude tourism industry, which the
American Association for Nude Recreation says
brings in around $440 million a year, up about
10 per cent in the last decade.
“I think when we vacation, we would rather
travel with like-minded people, whether nudists
or jazz music lovers,” said Nancy Tiemann,
owner of the nude tourism company Bare
Necessities, which is arranging the cruise. “It’s
not just about getting on a cruise ship and
taking your clothes off.”
Nude tourism isn’t a new concept: Tiemann
started booking cruises two decades ago with a
ship of 600 people and the American
Association for Nude Recreation celebrated its
80th anniversary last year.
But the industry has evolved, with resorts
becoming more upscale, cruises getting larger,
and judging from the turnout of vendors at the
first nudist expo last week in Las Vegas, no
shortage of tourism companies aiming to cater
to those who would rather travel in the buff.
Smaller nude cruises have visited the Greek
Islands, Croatia and the Italian and French
Rivieras in addition to more conservative locales
such as Egypt — though travellers were clothed
when they toured the pyramids.
Nudists, who say they are not about forcing
nudism on others, emphasise the nudist
lifestyle is simply about enjoying oneself
without the social or physical burden of clothing
in a non-sexual, family-friendly environment of
like-minded people.
—Reuters
Florida next February for an eight-day cruise to
Panama, it will offer the same amenities as any
other Carnival cruise: three pools, a jogging
track, a 1970s dance club and a cigar bar.
But there is one stark difference. Passengers on
the white behemoth of a ship, which can carry
2,974 passengers, will enjoy those facilities
naked.
The ship’s expected nude sailing — the trip is
70 per cent booked — underscores the vitality
of the US nude tourism industry, which the
American Association for Nude Recreation says
brings in around $440 million a year, up about
10 per cent in the last decade.
“I think when we vacation, we would rather
travel with like-minded people, whether nudists
or jazz music lovers,” said Nancy Tiemann,
owner of the nude tourism company Bare
Necessities, which is arranging the cruise. “It’s
not just about getting on a cruise ship and
taking your clothes off.”
Nude tourism isn’t a new concept: Tiemann
started booking cruises two decades ago with a
ship of 600 people and the American
Association for Nude Recreation celebrated its
80th anniversary last year.
But the industry has evolved, with resorts
becoming more upscale, cruises getting larger,
and judging from the turnout of vendors at the
first nudist expo last week in Las Vegas, no
shortage of tourism companies aiming to cater
to those who would rather travel in the buff.
Smaller nude cruises have visited the Greek
Islands, Croatia and the Italian and French
Rivieras in addition to more conservative locales
such as Egypt — though travellers were clothed
when they toured the pyramids.
Nudists, who say they are not about forcing
nudism on others, emphasise the nudist
lifestyle is simply about enjoying oneself
without the social or physical burden of clothing
in a non-sexual, family-friendly environment of
like-minded people.
—Reuters
Friday, 3 August 2012
Do's And Don'ts How To Keep Him Interested
How to keep him interested is tough especially as time goes on. Getting a guy's attention is an easy thing to do, it usually starts with a little flirtation which cannot hurt both of you. Girls are usually easy to read compared to guys who are not and this makes it hard to know what he is thinking about. Here are some tips that should help you keep him interested:
> Find out what he likes and show genuine interest on those - his hobbies and pastime, favourite dishes, sports, etc.
> Be yourself - never try to pretend whom you're not because he will eventually find out.
> Be his friend - successful relationships always start with friendship.
> NO to jealousy - guys hate jealous women and they would soon lose interest in you if you are like that. He is with you so that should put all your doubts to rest.
> NEVER be excessively needy - give him space don't check up on him continuously.
> Be independent stand on your ground, men don't like women who always depend on them and don't have minds of their own.
> Make him miss you - don't always be available for him, have time for yourself also. Give him enough time so that he can think about you and would be looking forward to seeing you again.
> Don't make him the centre of your universe - you both have different lives so live your life as well; never focus your whole life in him because you have lived before he even came to your life.
> Surprise him every now and then - think of something out of your daily routine so that he will never know what to expect when he is with you, this will make him feel special as well.
> Appreciate him - women are not the only ones who like to be appreciated, tell him you appreciate his efforts or whatever he has done be it big or small.
> Be trustworthy - never lie even if it is one small white lie, because we all hate being lied to, you will earn respect by being honest.
> Look great, feel great - you don’t have to put on full make up; just enhance your natural beauty, clean clothes, fresh smelling.
> Keep him intrigued - don't divulge all information about yourself to him keep him guessing in some aspects of your life, you can let him work it out through conversations but make him work for it.
> Don't nag – this is a real turn off, if you have a concern try to talk about in a constructive way, be helpful, considerate.
> Accept him for who he is and don't try to change him - you cannot change a man's true nature, so you should accept him wholeheartedly not only those things you love about him but also the things you don't as well.
> Love yourself - if you do, so shall he.
> Never open up about MARRIAGE - as soon as that word is out of your mouth, so is he; it's like a bomb being dropped on them. They don't like to rush things. If he feels you are the one, don't worry because no matter how short you've been with him, he will open it up
Hopefully, with all of these, you won't have trouble keeping your man's interest in you and who knows maybe next time he will pop the question you've been waiting for.
Effects of Alcohol on Sex and relationships
Is alcohol affecting your sex life?
Introduction
Find out why too much alcohol can be a turn-off for you both.
One of the tell tale signs you’re in a long-term relationship is that evenings spent together on the sofa become more appealing than nights out down the pub with your mates. For some couples those cosy nights wouldn't be complete without alcohol.
But whether you’re drinking alcohol as part of a shared night in or a romantic meal out, drinking too much too often can hit your relationship where it hurts – between the sheets.
Less sensitive sex
According to the experts, drinking alcohol to excess can make good sex go bad. Dr Abigael San, clinical psychologist and alcohol expert, says this is because alcohol reduces both men’s and women’s sexual sensitivity.
“In both sexes, sexual response is reduced by regular and prolonged drinking,” she says.
“In both sexes, sexual response is reduced by regular and prolonged drinking,” she says.
“In men, alcohol can cause difficulties getting and maintaining an erection – while women may experience reduced lubrication, find it harder to have an orgasm, or have orgasms that are less intense.”
Many people mistakenly believe that alcohol is an aphrodisiac because in small amounts it reduces your inhibitions and makes it easier to flirt with someone you fancy. However, over time alcohol can actually put a dampener on your sex drive.
“Too much alcohol can actually reduce sexual desire,” says Dr San.
“This can lead to all sorts of problems in long-term relationships – for instance when one partner feels they aren’t getting enough attention from the other.”
Sexual side-effects
Drinking too much over an extended period of time can have other sexual side-effects too.
Everyone knows about “Brewer’s Droop” – the inability to get an erection after a night of drinking is a situation often played for laughs on the comedy circuit. But the truth is regular drinking can eventually turn a temporary condition to full-blown impotence.
Drinking can also cause damage if you’re planning to have children. Studies show that women who drink over the guidelines take longer to become pregnant and can suffer from menstrual and fertility problems including damaged ovaries.
Recapture your spark
Dr San believes that cutting down on alcohol can be the key to putting the spark back into your sexual relationship. The government daily unit guidelines advise that women should not regularly exceed 2-3 units a day (equivalent to a 175ml glass of 13% wine) and that men should not regularly exceed 3-4 units a day (equivalent to a pint and a half of 4% beer).‘Regularly’ means drinking every day or most days of the week.
If you’re serious about not letting alcohol get between you and great sex, then it’s best to try cutting down together. Start by planning romantic nights that don’t involve drinking alcohol at all, or make sure that you keep the amount on offer to within the daily unit guidelines.
“It may be easier to reduce your alcohol intake if you change the context of your evenings in,” says Dr San.
“Try doing something different, like cooking an elaborate meal together, or going out for a walk rather than sitting in front of the TV drinking wine.”
Sexual healing
Practical ways couples can cut back on booze for better sex
- Talk it out together. Rather than criticising your partner’s drinking habits, acknowledge that it could be a good idea for both of you to cut down.
- Praise, don’t nag. Just like in the bedroom, a bit of enthusiastic praise can help steer your partner towards what makes you both feel good. Compliments like “You look really slim now you’ve cut down on the pints,” will help your partner feel positive about their choice.
- Track your drinking. Record your everyday drinking so at the end of the week you can see what you’ve consumed, and how it compares to the government’s daily guidelines. MyDrinkaware is perfect for this.
- Have alcohol-free days. If you’ve got into the habit of drinking wine for dinner, try switching to a premium non-alcoholic choice instead.
- Splash out. Put away the money you would have spent on alcohol. Then, at the end of the month use it for something you can do together, like a romantic weekend away or a pampering spa treatment.
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